Old question right? Some people claim its in the blood. Some say all men cheat! Some claim staying faithful is boring like watching only one channel or eating only one type of food! Hmm. But i ask since you cannot 'EAT' one type of food why go into a relationship?
How can you claim to be in a relationship with someone and other people are involved? Why hurt and scar another person?
I just think people cheat because they can get away with it or because they have no self control and determination. For some people they are in a relationship for the wrong reasons like for money, for sex, peer pressure, she's beautiful or he his handsome. Some people are just selfish and don't care. Some have no sense of morality or Godly fear. Some even think it is normal and is expected as long as they don't flaunt it before their partner or get caught. Some say everybody does it. For some it is fun,a game.
Some claim their partner is not attractive anymore or because of distance or their partner nags or fights all the time. So if your relationship hits the rock the best thing is to cheat, right? Since cheating solves the problem?! Of course it doesn't! If you are having problems in your relationship why not try to work it out and if it doesn't work out with all your efforts,why not just end it.
Cheating doesn't make you a better person it changes you (consciously or unconsciously) and how you value people and things.
I believe in the golden rule: DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU WANT OTHERS TO DO TO YOU.
WHAT DO YOU THINK? PLEASE SHARE YOUR COMMENTS!
They may love their gf or bf but they are not getting what they want from them.
ReplyDeleteits obvious that you have mentioned if not all but most of the reason but how ever, its important to know that so many people went or go into relationship or marriage as a result of pity, i mean because you have both been dating for years! or if you told her you are no longer doing again she might kill her self! ooh No, thats not a yardstick to measure or go into marriage, thats why i support courtship, no your partner cause marriage is suppose to be a life time contract has it stand as the only institution you gain or collect certificate at the beginning of the course or program, all other institution, you will graduate before you get you pali... nice job Kei keep it up
ReplyDeleteThank you sir and thanks for commenting!
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