WHAT IS YOUR PURPOSE AS A WOMAN?

Are you a woman with purpose and determination?



Theses day we hear of women achieving a lot in all aspects of life: Education,politics,science,music and so on. But the sad truth is that these women are few and even more so in African and Asian countries. WHY? There are a lot of reasons (apart from the the fact that we live a male dominated world) one of them is the: "THE ASPIRATION TO DATE OR MARRY A RICH MAN (AS THE GREATEST ACHIEVEMENT) ATTITUDE".

  Alot of women,students,business women and working class want to date or marry the richest man they can, not necessarily because he has all the good qualities a woman should look for in a man but because to them if they can get this type of man they are "made". 

  The sad truth is that it's not just women who are in poverty or are uneducated who think or figure that's the only way out for them from a poor life but even well educated women from wealthy or middle class families ,who maybe in the university studying different courses, who have been well provided for, limit themselves. 

They feel their most laudable achievement is to get that rich man and everything would be fine. They can plan that fanciest wedding among their friends, use designers makeup, perfume, clothes and shoes. As if that's all life is about.Their potential is extinguished by their own hands. Their degrees become mere accessories like a "statement necklace". 

  Am not saying marrying a rich man is bad or wanting fancy things is bad. Am asking what can you do yourself to get them? 
WHAT IS YOUR PURPOSE?

If you are a student ,you want to wear the latest clothes,look unique,expensive,sophisticated but can you afford it with your spending allowance or your business? Or you trade you self esteem to disrespectful irresponsible men for money? For the sake of these things that quickly go out of fashion constantly? 

It's so sad to see how low some men view women. It is common for a guy to take a girl out to eat and expect to be"paid back" with sex. Or the so called "high class women" who speak fluently, have a degree and even masters or have a good skill or business but would let irresponsible "rich" men manhandle and dehumanize her because she wants the latest phone,shoes or car and then you wonder why only few men have respect for women when they feel they can "BUY" you. And without them you can't achieve anything by yourself except through his money!

Why not be a woman who is patient ,hardworking and content! Everything comes in its good time with persistence.  Why not work hard for your own and be content in the meanwhile until you achieve your goals! Don't be lazy. Don't limit yourself. Nothing feels like the accomplishment and success after endurance and patience. Be a woman with self esteem and purpose.